There’s control and then on the other side of the spectrum we have ‘what will be will be’. That straight line kills me. So let’s make a quadrant rather. I like quadrants, more freedom and flexibility.
So if one axis is control and the other is ‘what will be will be’, now what?
Now I can see that different aspects of my life fall into different areas. Having a place to live is in the High control space. Owning land however falls into low control, high what will be space. Interesting.
Sometimes I feel overwhelmed with keeping everything under control. Maybe realizing what needs control vs what I can let go of will be useful.